Everything in life is a process. People go through things and move onto other things, change their views, rely on people then doubt them other times. Its a vicious process really. Dog eat Dog world is probably the best way to describe it.
Relying on someone takes a step of faith. To put your trust in anything but yourself takes incentive and a bit of convincing. The motions will take you on a roller coaster of emotions and ups and downs on a daily basis. Frustrations and hardships WILL come your way. But be patient, because they wont last for long.
Everyone is entitled to a license to pursue happiness. They should staple a paper copy to your birth certificate. If you are not happy, change it. If you think you won't be happy on the road you are on, do something about it.
Different points of view will pull you in different directions. Trust your heart. Trust what will make you happy now and in the future also. Plan ahead as best you can. Be ready for struggles, be ready for those roller coasters, and be ready to pursue what you want with full force.
Life is about love, hard work, trial and error, family, and personal well being. Do what it takes to clear your mind of frustrations, of anger, and of confusion. If you are confused about something, seek help from an outside source. If you have a problem with someone, ignore them, don't make the matter any more problematic than it already is.
Be true to who you are. You are nothing but an individual. You have a mind and a heart of your own. Don't let anyone tell you who you are and what you should be. Be at peace with who you are and if you aren't, change it. Do whatever it takes to be happy with the person you are. Trust that what will happen from now on will only be for your betterment. Have faith that everything happens for a reason. Put your hope in truth and base your life on what you believe in. No one can pull you down, no one can change who you are but you, and no one can stand in your way.
-quixotic-