There are things that are meant to happen. These are inevitable occurrences. Everyone has these and everyone will continue to have them for the rest of their lives. Don't try to avoid them, trust that your life will level itself out over time. The inevitable is unavoidable and it cannot be fought with any sort of power. Experience the inevitable by letting in the things that have to happen and doing away with the avoidable. Make use of your free will and subside in a peaceful setting in your conscious mind. Open up, let it all in.